Allow yourself to feel…don’t hold back…

Allow yourself to feel…don’t hold back…

- Dedicating this blog to those who allow themselves to continue being victimized in so many ways as they continue in their relationships...

Many women, yes especially women, keep how they really feel inside. They do not share with their loved ones, those they should let know; thinking that if they let out their feelings their relationship will be ruined. And the vicious cycle continues ruining their own lives.

If misery is kept inside, taking deeper and deeper root, it destroys a person to the point that life becomes a burden. It is critical that one questions such misery. Is it really worth being in a relationship that is eating you from inside? Isn’t it your right to be happy and free to live the joyous life that you wee meant to live? Desire and command the happiness for your life is worth it, Take the necessary actions, the critical steps with honesty and integrity and compassion, with much analysis and with truth. Do not curb your innermost feelings. Do not tell yourself that you will somehow live through life, that you will accept the victimization of feelings and you will survive. Know that you will survive no matter what, but it is our right to survive with happiness and peace and not with the burden of misery. Accepting victimization is even bigger of a crime…so what will you do about it?

Communicate frankly and honestly about how you feel, with the one you need to communicate with.

To analyze yourself, split a paper in half, and write down all the pros and cons of the situation, for writing provides clarity.

You may just find that the problem/solution was much simpler that the mind had made it into.

You may realize that you were compromising on the richness of life for no other reason than fear of the unknown.

When you know what you want, the Universe, God helps you as well.

Take a step in the right direction, seek help…YOU ARE WORTH IT J