Two wholes make a WHOLE; ...one +one=ONE!
In any relationship that matters, two halves do not make a whole; two wholes make a whole.
How do we define “whole”?
Here are some of the ways the word “whole” is described in a dictionary:
“Containing all components”
“Complete”
“Not divided or disjointed”
“In one unit”
“Constituting the full amount, extent or duration”
“Not wounded, injured, or impaired; sound or unhurt”
“Have been restored; healed”
“Thing lacking no part or element”
“A thing complete in itself”
“An entity or system made up of interrelated parts”
“Considering everything”
A person cannot be whole unless he/she has peace within leading the person to Higher levels of spiritual thinking –love leading to devotion, caring, humility, unselfishness…
A marriage between two beings is wholesome when it is coming together of two wholesome beings. When the two parts of a whole is lacking in anything, they are defined as needy, for the antonym of “whole” is “partial.”
On the other hand, when two wholesome parts come together, the “whole” formed is strong, happy, and successful, at peace and always on a journey of enriching each other.
A marriage between two spiritual, wholesome beings is a journey together of love and care.
Here is ground for some more thought:
Why do two people who are not complete in themselves first come together in a marriage in the hopes of forming a wholesome partnership called marriage? Is it any wonder that they face disappointments in the journey together? Why does a partner try to change the other rather than reflecting on what may be lacking within?
Marriage should be a partnership between two Souls, not two Personalities, for Souls and Personalities are two different entities.
How do we become whole?
Meditation, Self Introspection, Solitude, Being in complete Silence by dissolving the mental chatter…all of these leads one on a path of wholeness, a path of true freedom, a path to Union with God. J
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